thin metal alloy, fibreglass or carbon fibre poles are more likely to bend or break - for hiking tents choose alloy poles > 9mm diameter (preferably in a sleeve rather than clip on) or a trekking pole tent
a low profile, small tent or a swag will have less surface area exposed to the wind and thus less wind stresses on the components
aerodynamic tents are more likely to be resistant to wind stresses - for car camping, teepee style tents do well in strong winds if guyed out well
choose a tent where the fly is pitched first so that it can be sequentially guyed out from bottom up as you set it up
ensure the tent has plenty of guy out points and the guy ropes are pre-attached
a tent with sleeves for the poles instead of clips will distribute stresses better
ensure you have good strong pegs for the ground type - a peg coming loose will severely compromise your shelter and risk damage
if gaining strong pegging is likely to be difficult, choose a freestanding tent rather than a trekking pole tent (even though trekking poles are generally stronger than tent poles)
if car camping,
air beam tents may do better in strong winds as they do not have metal poles that will bend or break, but they are generally not aerodynamic and are much heavier and bulkier than normal tents and need extra strong pegging
if you have a larger touring 4-12P tent in sandy soils you will need large heavy duty pegs designed for sand, a sledge hammer and strong guy ropes with springs